My girlfriend and I are both virgins, so obviously we rely heavily on oral sex. The thing of it is that because she is asthmatic she can't stay down there for longer than 5-10 seconds with out gasping for air. I think that she gets nervous too. Like it seems like she is afraid of disappointing me. I've tried to tell that it's impossible for her to do that, but she still seems nervous.
So my questions are (A) is there any way for her to better conserve her oxygen and (B) Does anyone have suggestions to help me to calm her nerves a little bit?
Help will be GREATLY appriciated,